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Hi,

My father in law died due to sudden heart attack and without any will, he was working in Central Govt(defence) and got married twice. First wife passed away

15 years back and they have two girls with them, he got married again and have another girl with them. Overall the family members left are second wife, 3

daughters. Eldest daughter is married to me, second daughter is around 25 yrs of age and the youngest one around 15 years of age. I have few questions,

appreciate if you can answer and help us at this critical stage.

Since my mother in law is a step mom, my wife and her immediate sister relations are not cordial since beginging.

1) Can my wife(eldest daughter) and second sister claim their appropriate share from Government for the funds which will be passed on after my father in law

death. Basically PF, Gratuity, Arrears etc etc
2) If they can claim then what should be our next step ?
3) What would be the appropriate portion of shares divided among 4 of them?
4) We dont kn


I was in Thailand last year and I visited a shelter where they help women who are caught in the sex trade. I was so touched by their horror stories that I decided to adopted a child that was born as a result of one of the prostitutes being raped. Last month I was finally able to pick up my daughter, I had to go through 1 year of hell and grief just to be able to adopt. The sad part is most of the hoops I had to jump through were in the USA (my home country) and they were because I am a man. For some reason people seem to think that I am less qualified to be a single parent because I am male. Today I got a phone call from the Adoption Agency worker and she had nerve enough to say "I hope you are changing her diapers properly" she even had nerve to ask me how much my mom helps me out.

I joined up with a group of other single adoptive parents and I noticed I get all kids of weird looks like i'm some kind of pedophile adopting a child just because i'm not a women or gay.

I don't understand it, I love my child, i'm a good parent,. I have a great job that I have taken a whole 4 months off of to be at home with her, why are people like this?


Okay!.....here it goes.....we both male are have been the best of friends for nearly 19 years. how ever I think hes gay or at least in the closet.....I am gay and out. I have a boy friend of 5 years...I am very happy. Yet somehow I think my best friend is gay and/or inlove with me or something. When we were younger we experiemented with touching and running around the house naked at night, skinny dipping, getting off together alot, all of which he initiated. That all ended when his mom found out about the notes that we would write back and forth. They weren't love letters, but they were very private letters between us. After she found out, she fliped on him about what was written in them. Suddenly she started dating girls.......(yeah isn't that funny)......next thing I know.....he doesn't want to talk to me....and for the next 8 years.......we didn't speak......then my sister died and he comes to the viewing with his wife and the next thing I know....we are talking up a storm.......after that.....we are talking nearly everyday.....and when we talk I have to be the first one to Hang up....he doesn't seem to want to end the call. From what I can tell his relationship with his wife is ......odd......they seem like they are married out of a convenience.....yet when i went down to visit him his home ( he was on vacation that week)....his wife was a work and he was at home with their 22 month old daughter......for 6 hours we talked and goofed off.....and then I noticed he caught a look at my crotch while i was standing in the doorway at one point, also for spending the day at home.....he was dressed nicely. Oh yeah, i talked to him about gay sex...for 3 hours....and he never once seemed to have a problem......its like he wanted to hear about it. He told me that his wife told him before she went to work that she didn't want us upstairs getting into the top dresser drawer....and he asked her why....she said she didin't want to come home to find that I got him to stick a dildo up his a**...he told me he called her a dam hog.......then when she came home.....he said something to her..(i dont remember what he said to her)....but she looked right at him and called him a f*g......and he got real defensive......and all he did was......got in her face....and pointed at me and said......call hi


Me and this girl have had problems because im friends with someone she hates. This girl is in 8th grade and im in 10th grade. I was talking to her on facebook and she started swearing and being a b**** so I swore back at her. Well her mom is crazy and hacked into her daughters facebook. Printed of the convo and gave it to our principal. Me andmy friend got suspended and nothing happened to the 8th grader. I understand that I swore alot but it was outside of school. It was on my personal facebook page. And I did NOT impose ANY threats. I feel I got punished unfairly and that she should at least get some sort of punish for everything she did. Like purposly pushing kelsey in the hallways and stuff. What are mine and Kelseys rights and can you give me a website that would explain our rights, we live in michigan. I don't think the school should be able to punish me for a convo that happened outside of school. Mine and Kelseys parents are very mad and they're going to be a huge meeting tomorrow. I would just like to know our rights so I can go in there maturely and know what I'm talking about. Thank you for your help!


I was in a store and this mom had a padded bra and i ask her what was the bra for and she said it for her 5 year old daughter and when her daughter came to her she was so flat.You can't even see the "showing" come out.


I have worn glasses for a few years now. I wore contacts when I was in high school, but now being a mom of 2, glasses just seem easier. The pair of glasses I wear now I've had for about 2 years, they are plastic frames. The other day, the plastic just snapped around one of my lenses. I called the place I got them from (Eyemasters) and they told me that I could come in and they could replace the frames, but my warranty had expired and they were $59.99. Well, I went in today and the girl already had the frames set aside since I called and she said give me about 5 minutes and I'll have them done. Sure enough, 5 minutes later she said your all done...well, I was standing there with my wallet and I said, "wait, I'm done, that's it?" And she said "yes, you are good to go." I had my daughter with me and a friend with her daughter and we left. I stood there outside for a minute thinking maybe she was going to say oh wait, you need to pay for those, but she didn't. Was I wrong?? Should I call them and make sure I wasn't supposed to pay? I feel like I stole these glasses, although my friend said maybe they misread that my warranty had expired, she said a lot of frames have a lifetime warranty...what would you do??
Posted this under parenting because I'm always posting about my daughters and I didn't really know where to post this but thought parents could answer this too! :)


He called on Monday & spilled everything to me; people were talking badly about him on a local website, he found out last Friday that he apparently had a heart attack or a stroke last month (he is only 31), he began seeing a therapist & was placed on meds for schizophrenia earlier this year, he's going crazy not being able to see his ex's daughter whom he thinks of as his own, just to spite him the b**** mom hasnt let him spend time with or even talk to the little girl for 2 months, so he is extremely upset about that..there is even more but I'm not going to go further. I could barely understand a word he said since he was crying so hard! I have known him over 12 years and have never seen him like this. He has always been the type that holds everything in, so instead of interrupting him to put in my 2 cents, I let him talk & get it all out. I now wish I had offered some encouraging words, I emailed to say he can call me anytime & to keep his head up but he didnt respond, I became worried & sent another with a notification & seen that he didnt bother opening it, I'm thinking hes probably embarassed that he let me hear him cry.Or did I let him down?? Should I call him or leave him alone, I'm very scared at the thought of him being alone though, I feel a need to reach out to him but I dont want to bother him... I've thought of driving up to surprise him with a visit but then I think heck he ignored your email do you think he wants to see you in person. Then I keep thinking of this quote that says "Some people put up walls not to keep others out but to see who cares enough to tears them down". I feel so helpless, what do I do???


when i was 5 to 11 my mom gave me an alcohol bottle to help me go to sleep, was that the right choice?


p.s. she stopped because my dad said it was unnatural.


Okay so since i was little me and my mom have always been best friends. i mean we have done everything together. Most the time i hangout with her and ditch my friendds! Im 15 now. I have so much fun and love to be around my mom, it makes me happier than anything. We are more like sisters than mother and daughter. But lately, every time we seem to be together we argue and no matter how hard we both try to stop, it just turns into another fight. I've sat down and had a heart to heart about it, and we both agreed to change are ways , but so far it hasn't worked. For example, last night we got in a fight because we were watching a video on yuotube and she was like oh well this girl thinks shes good, and i was like mom chill its a video. Somehow those two sentences started a whole fight and it blew up into not talking for the rest of the night. Then i woke up today and we were fine. aFTER SCHOOL, FINE. Tonight we were fine until i was doing my hair and she was like don't put hair spray in it, it will make it dry. Then i was like ugghh. Cause somehow she persuades me into not doing this every time i do my hair, and i want to! It just gets frustrating but i know shes just trying to help. Now were not talking and i hate it. And i wwouldnt be upset if they were just normal fights that every teenage daughter has with their mom, but their not! They blow up and get way out of hand. And i hate it, because i feel like for the last 5 months, i've been losing her. And she just keeps telling me that she wants her nice sweet daughter back. How can we get back to normal, like the way things used to be? Anyone please answer, im desperate. I just dont want to lose her anymore thani already have.


so me & my gf have been sexually active for about 6 months now and her parents never liked me form the beginning. but she was talking to her friend kate about us having sex and she left the room to go to the bathroom, but her mom went and got on and saw the message. so i got woken up at 1:00 in the morning by her mom yelling at her and her crying. they didn't let her go to school today and i got to talk to her once today it was for like 3 minutes than her mom heard her talking to me and hung up. i try to call but they wont answer. her mom said that she is never going to let her daughter back around me again. but i have no idea what to do. and the worst thing was that we are both seniors and i was going to ask her to marry me when school got out for christmas. i am lost rite now anyone care to help?
its not that we are young its that i have been with her sense the 6th grade and i dont want us to separate at all man i love her way to much for any of that to happen


My boyfriend and I have been together for five years April 2010. We have a good relationship and both of us get along well and are liked by the other's family. His family seems to have a lot of issues, and yes, which family doesn't?

Anyway, his little sister, we'll call her Christy, and I have always gotten along well - she's almost like my little sister, and I like her a lot and look out for her. However, she recently got pregnant - at the age of 16. I'm open-minded and realize this isn't the end of the world, but it is certainly a distressing situation for anyone to go through. Granted, it's not my life and not my family, but being as close as I am to his family I feel effected by the situation. The main issues for me is that my boyfriend's mom is handling the whole thing terribly in my opinion. Not only did his sister get pregnant by a 24 year-old drifter (hey - he can do what he wants as well) but their mom is letting her move in with the guy, and wasn't the least bit upset when Christy told her the news. Also of note is the fact that his mom is an alcoholic and will date men long enough solely to be able to move her (and Christy) into their homes and have them pay for everything, continually drinking the entire time. She is not a good role model at all, and while I am all for her supporting her daughter in this trying time, I refuse to be supportive of how this situation is being handled.

Basically I'm torn - I love his mother and sister, but this situation is very bothersome to me and I'd rather not see either of them. I don't want to upset or anger anyone, or make them feel judged. I've been keeping my mouth shut, but their mom keeps asking why I don't come over to visit when my boyfriend does, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by saying how I feel. Should I just continue to keep mum and avoid the situation?


Wednesday, 28 October, 2009, 7:10pm

my mother just said she will go to mumbai because she dosnt want to have a haert attack.
how about me she always yells at me, shouts at me. these ladies in my house never been like other ladies. they work so they think they are most intelligent in the world and others are fool & dirty.
day before yesterday they sent me out with my luggage and said dont come back this is the third time they did so.
i met babuji who is a good person met us at mamus house. my sisters and mother never hasitate to tell other people about me that im bad.
when i heard my sister talking about me to her friend (umesh) i was shocked. and couldnt believe my ears that a family mamber can do this to other one.
i cry when i think about this.
but now they are thirsty of my blood.
and want me badly to leave the house, so i m looking for a room for me.
im stuck here badly.
i m stupid that i find love in every person.
when the first time called a person to beat me it was worst day of my life and i cant forget it.
here's the story:-

I was sleeping on my bed, i have problem of urine frequency because of my family and a little dibetic too and i am over weight because im not allowd to workout so i spend all my time on my computer.
i went to pee 4-5 times that morning, my elder sister suraiya was sleeping below near my bed.
so when i got up my feet touched her slightly everytime, and my family hates wen someones feet touch them because they are cleanest in the whole world.
she started shouting and called mother all people started shouting and cursing me.
i got hyper and shoued back, now mom came to hit me i hit back( i feel regrate about it ), my always bad sister suraiya called someone on the phone and started crying. i snached her cell and trew it very hard and broke it. she made excuse that she is leaving house right now. she went out and came back with a fat man whos name was salman and was her friend, he looked at me with anger in his eyes and came to me held my hand twisted it and put my head on the bed and just twisted my hand.


now famyli is meant to be support, help, and love.
i was seeing enemies at that time i was helpless and crying that its impossible to make someone beat your own son and brother.
i was shocked i can never forget that morning. the memories are still fresh in my mind.
and my family is getting cruel day by day.
they just hate me now and love others like daughters and their husbands.



can anyone with such family survive?? or still can stay with the family??


My sister has been using my phone..and she texted a friend of hers and was telling her that she had texted her saying how school was getting bad and that she feels like she wants to die because everything is supposably being taken away from her. shes been going to alternative school (punishment for not paying attention in classs or being disrespectful) shes 15 years old..idk what to do. idk if i should show my mother the text or not. my mom is already going through a lot so i dont want to tell her that her own daughter is having suicidal thoughts.. any advice? please? :(
and also it sucks because me and my sister don't have a good sister relationship..


everyone found out (his sister complained) and the parents specially the mom got really pissed and threatened to file a rape case against her.

however he begged them to not report him and the parents let him go.

the mom of my cousin is still upset though. she is still considering reporting him to the police as she is upset about her daughter.

i am quite frank with the 15 yr old and he told me and my brother that she really enjoyed it, that she bragged about it to her friends, that he was really hot and he took an active part and there was no way he manipulated or took advantage of her.

i was quite shocked to hear this.


I am on my second pediatrician for my daughter in 16 months - we left the first because every time we went she was sure my daughter had some new rare disease, but also because she seemed very against breastfeeding when my daughter was an infant and I figured it would only get worse from there.

Now, My daughter is still nursing at 16 months. She was born at 9lbs 4 oz, and lost 1 lb before leaving the hospital. She still nurses about 8 times a day now, and has only gotten up to 20.5 lbs. Her father is very tall and super skinny so the doctor thinks it's genetics but has still recommended that I cut down to no more than 3 nursings a day because she says my milk is "low fat" and not as calorie dense as solid foods at 16 months. I know there are a lot of moms who know a lot more about breastfeeding than I do on here so I was curious to see your thoughts on this. Should I cut down the nursings? I have tried but it has made my daughter very very irritable and she's just drinking more whole cow's milk, not eating more food. Any thoughts?
Just to clarify, my daughter does eat solid foods - she eats 3 meals and 2 snacks a day, plus 10 oz of whole milk which is far more than any other toddler I have seen. She started in the 95th percentile for weight and height and now she is 87th percentile for height and 13th percentile for weight. Her father is 6'4" and when he graduated high school weighed 120lbs. Now, at 42, he is barely 150.


I am confused. Since it feels like I am in the twilight zone, so here are the facts:

01 - I have been married now for 10 years
02 - I have 2 boys with my wife, one is 8 and the other 6
03 - My wife and I started having problems after our first
04 - However, my wife and I don't really talk, we don't get along
05 - She doesn't listen to me, and finds it hard to talk to me
06 - Anyway, around 5 years ago, I met a Annette who became a friend
07 - My wife does not like ANY of my female friends and never has
08 - Annette although a hippie in nature didn't want conflict of any type
09 - So we hardly went out together or met up
10 - My wife always suspected me of cheating since the beginning
11 - Hand on heart I NEVER was and NEVER did till
12 - I naturally attract the women and enjoy talking to them
13 - When the problems at home grew worse and worse
14 - Annette was feeling worse and worse about being lone
15 - Everytime my wife and I had problems I would leave the house
16 - So Annette and I started to spend more and more time together
17 - After awhile we decided to sleep together
18 - And this right after, one of my wifes legendary blow-ups
19 - Annette's mom died, and I was there for her during that whole time
20 - Eventually she said she didnt want to be alone
21 - Since she had no family, no siblings or cousins etc
22 - So we decided that IF she had kids she would have family
23 - So we decided to have a baby, so SHE would have a family
24 - After losing our first, she eventually gave birth to a girl
25 - I gave her a baby, a sign of unconditional love
26 - Her baby,not mine, someone who would love HER unconditionally
27 - Since our baby was borne out of love and
28 - She didnt want our baby to be alone, she and I decided
29 - to have another baby, to give her a baby brother
30 - So when me and her mom were dead
31 - she would have her own FULL relative
32 - A true member of HER own family
33 - Annette is currently pregnant with our second child
34 - Although I GAVE my friend the babies
35 - I never expected to ever fall in love with my baby girl
36 - And now I cannot be without her
37 - I love her as much as my 2 boys, equally and such
38 - things got real bad with my wife and one day last week
39 - I spent a few nights in the car
40 - And then came home and told her everything
41 - My wife is NOW trying to be very civil to me
42 - My wife and I have only had sex 3 times over the last 2 years
43 - We are not close and not really civil since we always argue
44 - So I decided to end it
45 - I TOLD HER EVERYTHING - didnt hold back anything

This is the part I am confused:

46 - My wife is being too nice to me
47 - She wants to have a relationship with Annette's daughter
48 - She wants to get to know her
49 - She wants to work things out

I am TOTALLY freeking CONFUSED

39 - I told her that if I had told this too 100 women
40 - 80 women would leave me as soon as they knew I had cheated
41 - 15 women would ask for the full story before leaving
42 - 3 women who probably ask me how I felt before leaving me
43 - 1 woman would ask for time, and then leave me
44 - And maybe the last one, would be too confused to decide

But NO ONE would be cool with it, no one would be forgiving

QUESTION:
(a) - What should I do?
(b) - I have 2 women who want to be with me
(c) - I have 2 boys with the wife
(d) - And girl with the other who is pregnant with our second
(e) - this is a mess

What would you do?
Any advice at all .... anyone?

I know I am an idiot, a freeking cheat and all that, and I do not want to go too much into how I knew I was doing wrong, but since I am in this situ, ANY OPINIONS, no matter how distasteful or true are invited

thanks in advance


Ok here's the deal. I'm 19, turning 20 in May, a senior in college expecting to graduate in Spring of 2011 (5 years in college total). I work as a math tutor at a community college and I still live with my parents. And I'm an only child.

My parents pay for my $250 car payments, $100 car insurance, phone bill, and I don't pay any rent. I pay is for prescriptions, doctor's appts, internet for my phone, hair appts, and anything else that I need or want besides the household groceries. And I love my parents, we get along great.

But here's the thing, my older cousin laid up and had 2 children, 2 and 4 years old, that she won't take care of. So my mom took custody of the 2 year old girl and her mom took the boy. My mom has basically been taking care of the girl since she was about a month old. It was fine when we were living with relatives in a four bedroom and there were plenty of people to help. But now my dad is retired from the Navy and it's just the three of us taking care of a bratty, attention-lavished 2 year old. Sometimes we have to take care of the mentally delayed 4 year old as well.

She has to sleep in my room, even though we have an extra bedroom, and every day after going to school or working until 7pm I have to come home and help with her somehow, or else I'm not doing my share to live in the house. I don't get any sleep because she wakes up crying almost every night. Every weekend, I have a hard time getting my homework done, and I have basically NO time to do anything fun that I want to do unless the girls mom isn't at work or the club and is will to babysit her daughter, and it's starting to cause a big strain in my boyfriend's and my relationship (who I'm planning on marrying) because we have no time together unless he goes to school with me. And my grades are suffering because I have no time to study and I'm always so tired from lack of sleep and stress.

Am I being ungrateful to want to move asap? Should I just suck it up for the next year and a half so they can pay for everything until I graduate? Don't get me wrong I love my little 2 year old cousin but it's becoming too much for me to deal with. Sorry for the long post btw...

I've already been looking for people that need roommates by the campus just in case they take my car, and have found a room in a townhouse for $335 a month.
For those who said I don't help, I do help with her A LOT and voluntarily also. But it bothers me that her mother can go to movies and go on dates and do really whatever she wants. But me, who did not choose to have children yet, cannot.


hi my mom is a legal US resident im 22 and she wants to sponser me im unmarried how long will it take so i can be a green card holder


I am christian and I am a sweet person and i love helping people. But what happens when people always ask for favors when it is very inconvenient for me?

Lately the same neighbor has been calling and asking for various favors.....
i was at college all day, and i had went to wal mart and picked up my daughter from school, just got home to unwind and make dinner, do some dishes and laundry and get ready for homework (im a single mom) so my life is pretty busy.
She calls and asks for a favor...I told her sure, what is it?......but after she said she needed her item from rite aid which was on the other side of town i asked her if there was any place closer bc at the time i dont have much gas. and she said no thats ok ill call someone esle...but she says it in a tone like im supossed to feel guilty for not saying yes to everything she needs.
Now i do feel guilty for not helping someone. I feel like God is dissapointed too.... as silly as that sounds its true.

So what I am asking is this:

should a christian sacrifice "anything" to help someone esle....."no matter what they need?" even if its interfering with my life as a single mom...?im busy too
not only that but i realized that when i start helping ppl they keep asking for more and more...i know that sounds bad on my part but lol where do u draw the line


Hopefully whoever is reading this has at least seen the movie "Coraline". It's based on a story where the little girl "Coraline" has lousy parents & finds a secret door which leads to the same, but nicer, funner mom & dad. That's the gyst of it. So, I thought it looked like a cute movie, it was rated PG & for children, we watched it together.

Now, whenever my 4 year old does something she's not supposed to, I usually give her time out or take away some of her priveliges when she acts up. After watching that movie, she insists I'm not her Mommy & wants her other Mommy. She yells "You're not my Mommy, I want my other Mommy, NOW!" It's been at least 2 months since we've watched the movie & she continuously says it. I try to explain to her that she has no other mommy, just me! Which she doesn't, I gave birth to her you know, I'm not her step mom or anything. It's the same thing when my husband puts her in time out, or her Nana, she yells I want my other Nana, or Daddy! Especially when she does it in public, I have people staring at me like I kidnapped her!! It's so frustrating I don't know what to do, please help! I'm tired of people looking at me like I'm a criminal & I'm tired of my daughter saying I'm not her Mother. I've tried everything.

P.S. If you have toddlers, I highly suggest you do not let them watch Coraline, it looks like a cute children's movie but it's not.


My daughter is almost 5 months old and did everything very early from rolling over(1.5 months front to back and back to front on a hard surface) to sitting up (4 months!) and so on. She is a tummy sleeper but will not play on her tummy. She loves to 'army crawl' short distances but wont stay on her tummy for more than a minute. My doctor said not to worry but didn't explain much. Id like to know what other moms have experienced, especially if your baby was a tummy sleeper too.


me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and we live togther with his two kids. his daughter is 9 years old and his son is 5. his son and i have grown VERY close. at first his daughter loved me and i began to do morethings with her that her own mother never really does, everything was great(we neve say ANYTHING bad about her mother because we dont want them to hate her) out of know where she started to tell me that she hates me and that i'm not her mom! i never tried to be her mom and i have told her that. that i am only here for when she needs me. also i am the first girl that she has ever seen with her father but her mother is one of those ladies that cant keep their legs shut and introduces every guy to them :-( but we pretend everything is okay. i do what i can for these kids. why the hostility towards me??


Since my daughter was bored she has had leg growth problems....at night my daughter came to me and said mom im getting teased at school for my height they call me midget and dwarf....would my daughter be considered a midget or dwarf she is 4feet and 3inches and she is 12 years old..please help


i am 23 weeks pregnant, he wants nothing to do with baby. He told me if i had an abortion he would leave wife and make family with me. i could not abort so he left me. i believed i could not get pregnant and that he was with his wife to help her get papers and because they had a daughter (she is 4). should i tell his wife? i wanted to tell his mom maybe she might want to see the baby. i do not know what to do.....i feel awful for my son i can not believe he is really abandoning him. he told me a child needs to be with father that is why he was still with her. i can not believe their happiness is worth more.


A few days ago I was being a mom and doing laundry, went in to my 12 year old room that she shares with her four year old sister and her nine year old sister. As I was looking for laundry I came a cross broken pencils sharpeners missing the balds in them and also then came across a note book with pictures that made me think that she is cutting her self. For weeks now her whole attitude has changed and becoming very dark clothes, hair ETC. I talk to her school, and even my therapies. where do I start to find out if this is true.


Ok, well I absolutely HATE Miley Cyrus, so my friend and I are doing this little skit making fun of Miley, but its kind of not exactly about her.
It's gonna be called "Mommay...." because that is what Mylie (we spell her name like My-lie on purpose because she her mom (Mommay) had her and did not tell her dad. Mylie doesn't know who her dad is)
Here is a summary-
Mommay is a troubled mother that adopted one child and had a surrogate mother for another. The surrogate daughter is her daughter Destinie and the one she gave birth to was Mylie. Mommay will soon learn that Destinie is an angel, but Mylie is a total handful.
Mylie Cirrus Tippin- (Purposely spelled wrong)- MYLIE'S AUTOBIO-
My name is Mylie. I live with my mommay and my sister, Destinie. I hate Destinie. I hope she dies in a ball of fire. I am four years old, going on four and a half. I have two friends, their names are Nemo and Gang. I called 911 for Mommay putting me in the corner. I called it child abuse and I got taken away to a family called the Tippins. Mrs. Tippin, Mr. Tippin, and Kylie Tippin are my new family. I hate them. I hope they all die.
Destinie- (AUTO BIO) I'm Destinie Chappin, and I love my mommay, but I hate Mylie. Mylie is a total meanie and I hate her. Mylie got me taken away from my Mommay because she called Child Abuse. She was only two, though. She's smart for her age.
Mommay (AUTO BIO)- I keep secrets from my daughters. They think I am in Africa saving the Elephants because Mylie doesn't remember that she called 911 reporting me for Child Abuse when I put her the corner. Destinie does remember, but plays along with me. Neither of my daughters know who their father is (it's a secret). And I won't tell. Destinie also doesn't know that she was conceived by a surrogate mother. However, Mylie is a lie because I did not tell her father I had her. That's why I named her "My Lie" but pronouced My-lee. I love my
daughters, and I get a lot of time with them because the police allows me to. I do not have a job and live off of my mother's money because I am currently going to college.

So, do you think this would get a lot of views on YouTube? Do you like the concept? People at our school love it, but IDK....
Answer!


Ok, well I absolutely HATE Miley Cyrus, so my friend and I are doing this little skit making fun of Miley, but its kind of not exactly about her.
It's gonna be called "Mommay...." because that is what Mylie (we spell her name like My-lie on purpose because she her mom (Mommay) had her and did not tell her dad. Mylie doesn't know who her dad is)
Here is a summary-
Mommay is a troubled mother that adopted one child and had a surrogate mother for another. The surrogate daughter is her daughter Destinie and the one she gave birth to was Mylie. Mommay will soon learn that Destinie is an angel, but Mylie is a total handful.
Mylie Cirrus Tippin- (Purposely spelled wrong)- MYLIE'S AUTOBIO-
My name is Mylie. I live with my mommay and my sister, Destinie. I hate Destinie. I hope she dies in a ball of fire. I am four years old, going on four and a half. I have two friends, their names are Nemo and Gang. I called 911 for Mommay putting me in the corner. I called it child abuse and I got taken away to a family called the Tippins. Mrs. Tippin, Mr. Tippin, and Kylie Tippin are my new family. I hate them. I hope they all die.
Destinie- (AUTO BIO) I'm Destinie Chappin, and I love my mommay, but I hate Mylie. Mylie is a total meanie and I hate her. Mylie got me taken away from my Mommay because she called Child Abuse. She was only two, though. She's smart for her age.
Mommay (AUTO BIO)- I keep secrets from my daughters. They think I am in Africa saving the Elephants because Mylie doesn't remember that she called 911 reporting me for Child Abuse when I put her the corner. Destinie does remember, but plays along with me. Neither of my daughters know who their father is (it's a secret). And I won't tell. Destinie also doesn't know that she was conceived by a surrogate mother. However, Mylie is a lie because I did not tell her father I had her. That's why I named her "My Lie" but pronouced My-lee. I love my
daughters, and I get a lot of time with them because the police allows me to. I do not have a job and live off of my mother's money because I am currently going to college.

So, do you think this would get a lot of views on YouTube? Do you like the concept? People at our school love it, but IDK....
Answer!


Remember after Natalie died? Every year around Christmas, she would visit her son Timmy (who was still grieving for her) as a "Christmas Angel", and cause some kind of miracle to happen.

I think the first couple of Christmases she came in the form of a woman, but the third Christmas a Santa Clause performed the miracle, and Timmy automatically knew that it was a message from his mom.

I really looked forward to the following Christmas miracle; but it never happened. It's like they just faded from existence.

I think Pine Valley is really due for another Christmas miracle. Maybe in the form of Dixie visiting JR? Her message of hope could be that he's gonna beat the cancer and live a long and happy life. Of course, she would visit everybody who loved her, and every Christmas both Tad (along with his and Dixie's daughter Kate) and JR could go and sit on the park bench and wait for the voice humming "You Are My Sunshine".


Ok, well I absolutely HATE Miley Cyrus, so my friend and I are doing this little skit making fun of Miley, but its kind of not exactly about her.
It's gonna be called "Mommay...." because that is what Mylie (we spell her name like My-lie on purpose because she her mom (Mommay) had her and did not tell her dad. Mylie doesn't know who her dad is)
Here is a summary-
Mommay is a troubled mother that adopted one child and had a surrogate mother for another. The surrogate daughter is her daughter Destinie and the one she gave birth to was Mylie. Mommay will soon learn that Destinie is an angel, but Mylie is a total handful.
Mylie Cirrus Tippin- (Purposely spelled wrong)- MYLIE'S AUTOBIO-
My name is Mylie. I live with my mommay and my sister, Destinie. I hate Destinie. I hope she dies in a ball of fire. I am four years old, going on four and a half. I have two friends, their names are Nemo and Gang. I called 911 for Mommay putting me in the corner. I called it child abuse and I got taken away to a family called the Tippins. Mrs. Tippin, Mr. Tippin, and Kylie Tippin are my new family. I hate them. I hope they all die.
Destinie- (AUTO BIO) I'm Destinie Chappin, and I love my mommay, but I hate Mylie. Mylie is a total meanie and I hate her. Mylie got me taken away from my Mommay because she called Child Abuse. She was only two, though. She's smart for her age.
Mommay (AUTO BIO)- I keep secrets from my daughters. They think I am in Africa saving the Elephants because Mylie doesn't remember that she called 911 reporting me for Child Abuse when I put her the corner. Destinie does remember, but plays along with me. Neither of my daughters know who their father is (it's a secret). And I won't tell. Destinie also doesn't know that she was conceived by a surrogate mother. However, Mylie is a lie because I did not tell her father I had her. That's why I named her "My Lie" but pronouced My-lee. I love my
daughters, and I get a lot of time with them because the police allows me to. I do not have a job and live off of my mother's money because I am currently going to college.

So, do you think this would get a lot of views on YouTube? Do you like the concept? People at our school love it, but IDK....
Answer!


My nightmare began at a house witha bunch of people and my daughter was outside when someone walked by and shot a gun. My daughter who is 9 now but seemed to be around age 4in my dream was shot in the upper chest/lower throat. we called 911 and a firetruck arrived, but the ambulance didn't come. I was frantic as were my mom and dad, a fireman grabbed my daughter who was holding her head down, breathing, but not moving - we got ina car and the man drove us to his house and said the hospitals were full - at that moment i realized i needed to call her father (we are divorced) and he wouldn't believe me she was shot. i then ran to her and she was lifeless, but awake and i was frantic about getting her help - then i woke up in tears. does anyone have any idea of what could have caused this dream?


Well, I was at this woman's house, and she had some friends over.
She was doing everyone's hair (she colors hair for a living)

Her daughter who is about 1 1/2 was extremely contagious....and nobody knew about it.
So that was Saturday.

Today, the baby, the mom, the son, and this man that was over there were all confirmed swine flu.
I was playing with and holding the baby for quite some time.
I feel a little sick, but it might be my body playing a trick on me since mom just told me....but yeah.

I haven't had any shots.
I'm not really planning on it either.

Do you think I can get the flu still?
How long does it take?


I'm 13, and a lot of girls in my school are hanging out at the mall now. Their parents usually just drop them off and come pick them up later. My friends go to the mall sometimes but my mom refuses to let me go with them because she says that a lot of girls my age can get abducted. She will only let me go if one of my friend's parents go with us, but they usually don't. One time my mom did let me go because my friend's parents were going to come with us. But once we got there her parents went off by themselves and let us roam around by ourselves. My friend has a cell phone so we can call if anything goes wrong. But we were just fine walking around by ourselves. I kind of feel like I disobeyed my mom (but I guess not completely since technically the parents were in the mall, they just weren't with us), but would it really make sense for her parents to constantly follow us around everywhere? I know there's a lot of scary people out there and my mom is just trying to protect me, but do you think she's being a little overprotective? I mean, I wouldn't really expect any of those people to be hanging out at a mall where there are tons of people and even security guards.

So what do you think? Is my mom right, or is she being too overprotective? And also, if you think it's too dangerous to just get dropped off at the mall, is it any better to still walk around alone but at least have the parents in the mall?


Here are some symptoms that I have. very dizzy, I dont have a thermometer but I feel like im burning up, legs feel achy, runny nose, back kinda achy, tired , small cough.. thats it.

DETAILS... I went to Kalahari (BIG INDOOR WATER PARK) from last Saturday to Sunday.. and i went with my dad step mom and her daughter..... Well this will probly give it away but my dad tested positive for swine flu yesterday. And i spent 2 hours with him in a car and I slept in the same bed with him (I had to no other beds =< )

PLEASE HELP


im pregnant & thinking sbout telling my mom soon (im young) any advice on how to do it? how did you react when your daughter or son told you?


I work at an animal hospital and there is this 10 yr old dog that has an owner whom can't take care of her anymore. I got my mom to say yes to watch the dog for a week while the owners daughter is going to CA for one week. ( i have a one year old lab mix and a 7 month old kitten) and we used to have a dog that looks just like this dog i'm going to watch and she died when she was 3. please help me find a way to have my mom let us keep this dog for her remaining years.


Well this may seem a little childish to some individuals,but I don't think so.I have been staying with my mom and working part time.I have a daughter who eight months old.Are there anyways I can keep my daughter from calling her mom.Some people are okay with it but I don't think I will be.My cousin stayed with her mom for over a year and her daughter calls her by the name but calls the grandmother mom.Have anyone every been in my situation and do anyone have any suggestions?I am working part time so I can be at home with my daughter,and go to school and I'm not getting any help from the father so I won't be moving out until about another year.


OK ... here goes:

Amanda's mom is Janet, right? Her father was Trevor, who Hayley always called Uncle Pork Chop because Hayley's mom Arlene is Trevor's sister.

Hayley is Adam's daughter. JR is Adam's son. That makes Hayley and JR sister and brother. Since Amanda would be Hayley's cousin, being that Amanda's father was Hayley's uncle ... wouldn't that also make JR Amanda's cousin?

Unless I'm missing something, I think that the AMC writers inadvertently had first cousins carry on an affair.

What if baby Trevor is really for JR? That would make the baby JR's son, AND his second cousin!
I'm trying to get it straight in my head. Trevor was Amanda's father. Arlene is Trevor's sister. That makes Arlene Amanda's aunt.

Arlene's daughter is Hayley. That makes Hayley Amanda's cousin. Hayley's father is Adam. That makes JR Hayley's brother.

So ... (lightbulb) I think I'm beginning to see. I think. JR would be Hayley's brother, but not Amanda's cousin, because neither Adam nor Dixie are related to Amanda.

Adam would've been Amanda's uncle (in a crazy, cock-eyed way) if Arlene had married Adam. Something like a step-uncle, maybe.

My head's beginning to hurt.


My husband and I have been on a few cruises in the last couple years and love them. Recently, we found out about a cruise leaving in a year that's affordable and we want to go. Here's the issue: He has a 10 year old son from a previous relationship and we have a 6 year old daughter together. My husband and I would love to take our daughter along on the cruise b/c she's a great traveler, would be fun to have along, etc. My stepson is sullen and difficult and taking him outside the country would be a huge battle with his mom.
Is there ANY way that this would ever work without scarring him for life? My husband says it's our life and to do what we want (bring our daughter) and that his son gets different experiences with his mom so we shouldn't make decisions about our daughter based on him. I say that there's no way to do this without hurting my stepson.
Opinions?
P.S. My in-laws (hubby's parents) would be irrate if we did this to my stepson - and hubby says, again, it's our life.
To clarify, we do have another child together, who is 3 and she won't be going, only the 6 year old. Someone commented that I seem to be leaning towards taking her despite the controversy and I think "Charm" summed up our feelings a little. My stepson went to California for a week with his mom, my daughter obviously didn't go and that was no issue, right? It's just from our side since our children share a dad that we can't just up and take our daughter on vacation with us without him so is she going to miss out on opportunities?


I just gave birth to my daughter 9 days ago. I have only lost a bit of weight(I am usually pretty skinny)I have some zits popping up...due to the hormone changes...I am breast feeding so I feel my partner sees my breasts more than he ever has...in a completely different light then he has...I can only wear sweat pants and baggy shirts right now with no bra...as a bra causes my breasts to feel horrendous...He is back to work now with a ton of women in his office area who I am sure dress all wonderful to work.
When we met, I was 113 lbs, attractive, bubbly and wonderful. I am so afraid now that I am chunky and kind of going through some baby blues that he will no longer find me attractive.
I just need to know that someone else has felt this and how they got through it....please tell me your personal stories and offer suggestions as to make it easier for me to deal with.
I know its kind of shallow...but in reality, looks are what first attracts you to a person.

Thank you all!!!


my mom is very ill-she is working so hard to keep me at university, and seems to be wasting away before my eyes..

i lost out on 'the' prize by 2 marks two years in a row

my crush of 3 years doesn't like me back-yet i still can't forget him

i got an 80% degree (attended every lecture and never went partying-i was always duty conscious) and wasn't even called for a single interview whereas people who got below 70 got jobs. all my mom's sacrifice and my hard work for what?

i am treated like scum wherever i go-supermarket salespeople, etc.

oh n btw i'm not pretty

i want to die...i am doing my very best, and i know i am a good person (a good student, a good daughter,etc) and have high morals. i work so hard yet life always throws me down the drain! it's like what's the point?

i so badly need a shoulder to cry on


I split my 6 year old son with my ex-husband and I get my son every other week. Over the summer my ex married the women he cheated on me with 3 years ago. It's a given we do not like each other. Also, over the summer they moved in together and blended their families. She has two children and my ex has partial custody of our son and his daughter from his first marriage. My husband works in the evenings, so 5 of his 7 days with my son, his new wife cares for my son while he is at work. My son says that his step-mom spanks him hard and when my son gets mad that she is spanking him that she spanks him harder. He said, mom it hurts a lot when she spanks me! He also says, she locks in him in the bathroom when he is bad. Which my ex did tell me that, yes, they use the bathroom as my son's timeout place. I don't believe she should be physically touching my son and mad that my ex is not even caring for my son on his weeks. Just from the stuff my son tells me it is like she punishes my son because I am his mother. She always tells my son, that she is nice to me and I am just so mean to her and doesn't understand why? My son says, his dad and her fight all the time and she says how much she hates me, thinks I am stupid and calls me a f*cking b*tch all the time. I feel so bad for my son. I feel sad for my son and don't know if I should be upset and say something or keep my mouth shut? I hired a lawyer to get my son more but the process is taking forever. Since my ex received my lawyer's notice of representation letter, my son has been complaining more that his step-mom spanking and her sons are calling him stupid all the time. My son has told me a lot of awful things they have said about me and how I don't really want him and love him. I am just frustrated and don't know what to do anymore? I feel lost.
I should add my ex will not communicate with me at all. She makes sure he hates me as much as she does. His new wife even went to the extent of making a false email address (pretending that the alias email address was me) and corresponded with herself. She said things that I wanted my ex husband back, which I can assure you 110% I would never him want him back. These are the things she makes up in her head and convinces herself, nothing that is based in truth or fact. She even tried to file those emails with police as harassment and send them to my boyfriend in hopes she would cause trouble. She will do anything to make sure I never have any contact with my ex-husband, even if that contact ONLY concerns my son and nothing else.
No I am not making it out more than what the facts are. Yes, the had an affair but I care more about my son than holding onto that. I have seriously tried to make peace and asked them to move on from the past. I get met with mean comments from them. And yes the lawyer knows about the spanking but unless you have solid evidence to prove it, it is hard for them just to go off what my son reports to me. The legal process of custody issues is very slow. I thought when I hired my lawyer it would be a faster process and would be a lot easier. It is not as easy as you might think. You feel stuck in the meantime of waiting.
of course i try to tell my ex about what my son says. he doesn't want to hear it. he then calls me a lair. you have to understand, he needs her to watch his son so he can work and not to have to pay for daycre. he did it to me when we were married. he worked weird hours and I was always the one with the kids. i would love to tell him and her off or keep my son from them but then i don't want to legally set myself up where they can come back at me and try to take my son from me. it is a fine line you have to walk. i want to protect my son but i am trying to do it the right way and the legal way.
Wait, before you start saying you are going to report me. I have tried to tell my ex husband. I am met with only resentment and hate. I do care for my son greatly where I hired a lawyer and would do anything for him. I am going off what my son tells me when I am not around. I take everything my son says seriously and as the truth. that is why I took legal action and have a lawyer helping me. I would never let anything happen to my son and never turn the other way. I am just frustrated with how long the legal process is taking to get my son away from these people.
I guess at the time of my divorce I wanted to be civil and hope for the best. I never thought my ex would let this happen. I certainly wouldn't have agreed to joint custody. I would keep my son from him if I didn't know he was going to call the cops and show them our parenting plan which states we have joint custody. I have acted before hiring a lawyer in trying to get my son more and it only has lead to more threats from them. I have even flat out asked my ex if I can have my son on the days he works in the evening so my son can be with a parent. my ex only cares about having to pay child support if he did that. I have told him I would sign a legal document stating I would not seek anything financially from him. I just want my son, nothing else. you have to understand i am not dealing with rational people. trying to get custody of your child is not as easy. I thought going to a lawyer and hiring them was a simple solution. you need lots of money for it to be super easy & fast.


Okay this is going to be a little long. My brother has a girlfriend and has a baby with her, they have been together for about a year and a half. Every since they got together they have been staying with my parents. May i add, rent free! free babysitting (my mom)! all that included!
Right now my brother is in jail and she continues living at my parents house(rent free) with her girls (she has a daughter from a previous relationship). She works, goes home and stops at the gym with my mom, i know cause i'm there every day too and i see her all the time, and then she goes home after that but weekends she spends the night with her aunt.
So to get to my point. I was on facebook yesterday and happened to notice that i had a messege in my inbox so i just thought let me get it out of the way, maybe i forgot to delete an old messege or something but no it was actually some girl i do not know asking me how i knew my brothers girlfriend Britney because she was suspicious about her(britney) cheating on her good friend Miguel..and i was like "what"!! like it just hit me , i don't really talk to anyone, all i really get on facebook for is to play farmville..lol, so i didn't know how this chick found me and how she knew that i know britney..but everything she told me made sense..
When i confronted britney she denied everything and swore up and down she isn't doing my brother wrong but then again this girl knows a lot about britney although they don't know eachother..why would she want drama in her life, by saying all of this if it wasn't true? Britney seemed pretty calm saying she wasn't going to "sweat it" because it isn't true but how do u know a person is lying? when they get defensive or when they are too calm? I don't know what to believe.
We also found out Britney paid for a hotel room this past Saturday at a Motel 8, but she claims that it was a gift that her and her aunt(Debbie) split to give to another aunt(kristy) and her husband who are having problems and that was it..but really how much does a room cost at a motel 8 to have to split in 2 ways? i thought it wasn't higher than 80 for one night and that's exactly what she paid.
Wow! i don't know..what would you think? guys from your point of view and girls please help..what to do? i know there are people that have nothing to do with their lives and live to ruin other peoples lives but this girl stands by her word.
Too much drama than i can handle..but i need someone elses advice..Thanks in advance!


I am having a major dilemma. please don't tell me that I don't need to be worried about it, because it matters to ME. I have a 15 week old daughter, and am exclusively breastfeeding. I can't lose weight at all. Even my dr. says something isn't right. I was even on a registered diet from a dietitian, and I lost 1 lb. It doesn't matter if I work out 1 hour a day(which I love to do), or gorge on food all day and night, I don't gain or lose weight. I gained 25 pounds while pregnant, and lose 21 by my 6 week appointment. I did have a c section, and started working out at about 8 weeks postpartum. I really don't know what to do. I am depressed and so tired of busting my ass with no results. I was even on a 1200 calorie a day diet, along with exercising daily, with NO weight loss. Why am I storing weight? I am a good mother, but a huge part of me(the selfish part) wants to stop breastfeeding. I used to be bulimic, and can't stop thinking about it. I know that is awful, but I am a good mom. I plan to breastfeed for 12 months, just like I did with my first, but this is just too much. Please help.
I need to add, I have a 4 year old, I am still holding 25 pounds from her. I have between 20-30 that I Need to lose. I am 5'3 and weigh 185. Everyone says I don't look that big, but the scale doesn't lie.
I do enjoy nursing and I know it is best for her. But I messed up the first time after I had my first. I ate all the time,and gained weight. I want to be a healthy mom, that is all. I wouldn't be griping about just 4 pounds. I need to lose the extra to be healthy again.


he was diagnosed w/ a sinus infection saturday and didnt get his prescription filled until monday. he also kept smoking until i finally took his cigarettes away b/c he started coughing like my late grandfather did when he had COPD.

he is now on his roughly 5th day of antibiotics(zpack), and all he does is take cold drugs all day and sleep. i had a severe sinus infection combined w/ a severe allergic reaction back in the spring(my throat was so swollen i couldnt swallow). my head hurt so bad that i couldnt even move, and i was expected to still care for my son all the time. after about the 2-3 day of antibiotics and a cortisone shot, i felt alot better. he has been doing this for the last week. i finally freaked out a bit on him last night, as he slept all day and all night. i had been up tending to him until 4am and my son got up at 9:30am, and he is a very active 18mo. and into everything non-stop, so i was exhausted, and given this is like the 5th to 7th day in a row of this, i was pretty burnt out as well, in addition to him all but refusing to go to school or get a job or do anything that might help provide for this family & instead sleeping all day, along w/ his mother seems to think that i should take care of my son by myself at all times, along w/ keeping the house immaculate, and some how i am supposed to find the time to make $100,000 dollars a year all on my own while her son sleeps all day and smokes and drinks all night and she tells everyone else in the family that she is raising my son, and that i do nothing, which couldn't be more of a lie. meanwhile my sil is supposed to receive infinite support b/c "oh poor her" she is by herself w/ the baby while my husbands brother is working a good job, along w/ she has her parents to watch the baby and has a car.

i told him that i felt like i was all alone and i was tired of being expected to not only be essentially the primary caregiver for my son constantly, w/ no help as far as child care, along w/ i am supposed to some how make $100,000/year on my own while taking care of my son and keeping the house immaculate(this is the amount of money his mother thinks i should make b/c that is what she believes you have to make in order to survive, and so that i can support her son, whom she thinks is the best thing since sliced bread and can do no wrong. she is also the biggest pathological liar i have ever met. i dont think i have in 5 years heard her tell the truth once).

i also confirmed tuesday of this week that i am pregnant. i havent told him yet, and i am pretty sure when i do tell him, he is going to get mad about it(when i got a faint positive last wednesday, he tried to say it wasnt positive and then went on a rampage about why did i have to tell him this now, after it was the first time in about 4 days i had seen him for more than 2 seconds as he had to go and take care of his mom while his grandmother was at the hospital. it was about 2 in the morning, but like i said-first time in 4 days i had seen him, and he was supposed to go back first thing the next morning and be gone again.), even though i made him be safe, as i wasnt on my bc, & he knew it, he took it off mid way through.

i have also been finding receipts for liquor in the car, along w/ empty beer cans,wine bottles, & 40 oz bottles all through our garage, along w/ the occasional empty liqour bottle that is his brand, that he ties to blame on the neighbors(we live in an apt. complex w/ working professionals and grad students, & he drinks canadian mist & leaves schlitz cans outside our garage and is trying to blame this on our neighbors). i have had to hide my pain pills from when i had my son, as well as any anti anxiety meds i have had in the past as when i was on xanax & that sort of thing for severe anxiety, he would steal them, along w/ my pain meds( i had an emergency c section w/ my son, so i had hydrocodone & some others).

this last week has about put me to the end of my rope. i have been looking for a job for a very long time now, but w/ no success.

i just don't know what to do. going to my parents is not an option as they disowned me over a year ago(my mother is a borderline personality w/ a bunch of other things tied in, & she refuses to take medication or do actual therapy, & did not like my dad having a father daughter relationship w/ me as it took attention from her, so she manipulated him into disowning me or she would divorce him & take my sisters & he would never see them again).

what do you think is going on w/ my husband?
the taking care of his mom was just prior to the sinus infection. also he mixed sudafed, nyquil, & alcohol the other night & started acting like an incoherant(sp?) jerk & trying to fight w/ me while i was trying to get our 18 mo. to sleep.
he had the flu tests & they were negative.


ive been with my husband for 5 yrs...at 4 yrs ago another man kissed me but i got mad and left...thats all that happened..ever since that day my husband has not trusted me. He insulted me on a daily basis. Called me every name in the book just to cause be pain. I cried for the last four years all to often. We have a 2 yr old daughter in which i take care of, he is very good with her so i cant say hes a bad father. He doesnt hit me, or cheat as far as i know of anyway. On the 1st of oct. i had had enough and wrote him a 5 page letter explaining to him my pain and all of my feelings. Ever since then he hasnt insulted me other than the occastional b word. He trys anything to make me happy. He cried when i wanted to leave. I have found that i am very resentful towards him and im having trouble forgiving him. Im putting him through hell. Should i leave and save both of us the sarrow later? or do i need to try and stick around since hes putting forth so much effort?...im lost at what to do here, its been a month almost and im still so confused. One day i want to stay, and the next day i want to leave. please someone...help me with my decision...remember we are married, i have no income (im a stay at home mom), and i have a 2 yr old daughter who has come to love her life with both parents. thanx to anyone who can help!
the kiss...let me explain...i had been friends with this other man for years nothing had ever happen me and husband had been together a year til one day he told me to never talk to my best friend again (the other man). i got mad and left to my best friends house and he kissed me, i told him no wonder my old man doesnt trust you and left. Went home and told my husband all about it. Ive paid for it ever since, even though i didnt do anything wrong in my opinion


When i send my invitations i wrote "no children" on the back of the reception card. I did this to all of my mom's friends, because they are the ones who have small kids.
Well, one of her friends (from way out of town) apparently didn't read the back or just acted naive and send me the RSVP with her and her husband's name on it, but on the number of ppl attending she put "3".
So i emailed her asking her: "are you bringing another adult along with you two"?
She emailed me back saying: "well, i wanted to see if i can bring my girl with me, if not, then it will just be my husband and i"
Since she is my mom's friend, i decided to call my mom and ask her what i should do. My mom told me to tell her friend that she is more than welcome to bring her daughter ("since she has no family in this country and is from out of town, she will have no baby sitter").

And so i did.. i told her that she can bring her daugther and she told me that she is 9 years old..
But, now i'm concerned about what her other friends are going to think when they see her with her kid at the reception..
I did told my mom i don't want nonblood related children though.. and she said: "well, if anyone else calls you asking if they can bring their children along, you tell them yes"... GRRRRRRRRR
I'm soooo upset..
I don't really mind the friend's daughter anymore, but the fact that i will have to budge if this happens again...

(By the way.. my mom is paying for all of her friends).

What can i do now?
Well.. i love children, i don't really mind them..
But the only children i planned on having were the blood related ones!

My mom said: "well, at least she is making the effort of traveling all the way here just for your wedding and at least she asked you if she could bring her daughter along, she could have just showed up with her daughter"..
But I think i'm just more upset about the fact that i had already said "no children" and still people asked me if they could..


My mother in law is way too into my pregnancy. She is driving me crazy and the baby is not even here yet!!

I am in the hospital under bed rest because i have preeclampsia and OC and i am allowed visitors between 9am and 9pm. which is great... just not so great when she is up here from 3 to 9 EVERYDAY,
At first it was sweet. "Oh she wants to be involved with the baby" which is now becoming a hassle. I have talked to my nurses about it. and they said they can ask all the visitors to leave after a certain time. but most of the time i have other visitors there. And when i dont if they ask them to leave i then get the "no visitors" sign on my door that night because "im tired" its policy and i completely understand.

My fiancee and I do live with her and my father-in-law who is great. They have allowed us to live there for 300 a month bills paid. (excluding car, insurance, cell..etc thats just utilities. so i am VERY thankful) but now she is controlling everything, including future plans with my daughter?!?! (making baby food the way things are done, schedules...etc) I havent even been given the chance to try.

She answers the questions my DOCTOR asks ME about how i feel she gripes to the nurses when something isnt done her way or when they come in too often or when my vitals are high or when i need somthing and havent been given the oppertunity to ask for myself!! ... well hell why dont you just carry the baby for me is about how i feel now. she doesnt ask how i feel about the circumstances nor does she care she just butts in.
Last week (behind my back) she went to the nurses station and full on told them my doctor doesnt know what he is doing the staff is awful and she will never come to this hospital again. WTF I really think my doctor is doing a wonderful job considering what i am going through, and all he wants is to carry me to term. (he is inducing me in 11days at 37w) My mother in law has fought this too!! she argued with the doctor telling him the baby needs to be born now because my condition and has tried to induce my labor several times on her own. (via--casteroil walking etc...) which i have blatenly told her no. SEVERAL TIMES

I am young but i can do this. My own mother is not like this.

I have talked to my fiancee about this. he said i need to talk to her... i dont know what to say and in a way i want him to say something... its his mother. the baby is not here and she is trying to play "mom" to her already... i am at wits end...and i know this isnt going to turn out well...

please help.
thanks in advance.


The one where the mom and dad take their college attending daughter to the olive garden and her roomates go as well. Who is the actor that plays the dad? I swear I've seen him on a tv show!


well my story is i met diz guy thru my parents if yu can say it and he told is mom dat he was amazed by me but his mom asked my mom didd your daughter like my son n my mom said i think =] n she saidwell give me her num so i can give it 2 him .few hrs later he txt me we have been talkin for about a week but i always make the conversation sumtimes because i like him but does he like me // i mean he txt me every single day all day but yu guys think he is interested in me?? he invites me wit him n his frends i think dat a good sign .. we havent kissed but it seeemed like dalast time he wanted 2 but he didnt


My 22 month old is a very loving girl and very intelligent. She just seems to be behind all of those her age. I hate reading those developmental websites that say your kids are supposed to be doing this and that. For example, she just started talking (has about 5 words) and she just started to do things for pretend play. She didn't point with her index finger until she was 18 months old nor did she point to things in a book until a couple of months ago. She is just now putting puzzles together and her communication is much better than it was. Everything I looked up pointed to Autism which she clearly doesn't have (4 professional have evaluated her and have said that she is clearly "normal"). She points to things of interest, is very social, smiles, laughs, and plays normally. However, it seems that everyone I come in contact with has a child that is far exceeding what my daughter can do. I love her and don't want to push her at all but it would be nice to know if there are other moms and dads out there who had a baby who just wanted to be a baby a little while longer.